sigh...not a single good thing has happened in my life lately... it's true and it's a fact that most of the time, i have high expectations in everything i do and everything that i expect to happen in my life. i really don't understand why some people are so demanding and can't stand to see others getting better.
like in the house i'm staying now, i used to park my car in the porch because nobody wants to until another girl started to have 2 modes of transportations, namely the bike and car. she uses less than 2 times her car in a month and still, everyday parks her in the porch. ok, nevermind, i'm fine with it coz i don't own the porch. everyone has the right to park in the porch. now, i started to park my car outside of the house since last semester. everyone knows it's the usual place i park my car everyday. now, another girl comes and took the place where i used to park my car everyday since last semester. now, i have to find another place to park my car. i found it very annoying as i like the place where i used to park my car. my car is a wira, which is longer and bigger than others kelisa and kancil cars(others have in this house) and it's very hard for me to find a suitable to park my car, nicely so i won't block others. grrhhhh...
i was in the cafe today lining up to get my food. i was ok til my coursemate came with her bf and cut into the line, just in front of me. don't they have manners or courtesy? can't they just queue up nicely in the line and wait for their turns? already uni students, but still don't know how to practice good manners. i detest those people who don't know how to consider others feeling and only think of themselves but demand others to understand them. grrhhhh...
my department had a plant visitation to sime darby in klang today. why at this time, when everyone is busy with their projects and presentations only someone from the course organized plant visitation and make it compulsory for everyone. i rather use the time to complete my projects and assignments. i don't object any visitation to any plant but not at this time. why don't he organized it in the beginning of the semester where everyone is super free and has nothing to do but loitering around?? grrhhhh...
i don't know what happen to the house i'm staying already. there are 7 persons in the house and these 7 persons are using the same dustbin in the kitchen at the same time. but only the chief tenant and i are the one who throw the garbage, for almost half a year already. everytime, the garbage is mountain high but still nobody wants to throw it outside. why? are they busy? nope, they spend around 2 to 3 hours a day, at least on tv and dramas. do they use the dustbin most(those who don't throw the garbage outside)? yes, they do. i have my wastepaper basket in my room and i seldom use the one in the kitchen. and the odour of the garbage, most of the time spread to the whole kitchen which is not hygiene at all. plus, most of the time when i throw the garbage, dirty water is already dripping from the garbage bag. and every time, i have to wash the wastepaper basket, like an 'ah sam', i'm nobody's kuli! grrhhhh...
i know, i'm being so calculative but i have my own things to do, i have feelings too. i know i'm a Christian, doesn't mean others can bully me coz people tend to think~aiya, Christian cannot get angry lar, will be sinful de...u not scared ar?
this is not true at all. Christians are still humans!
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Talking helps. Did you try talking to your housemates and stating your displeasures? Don't keep it to yourself and assume other people knows.
Even the two who cut your queue. Just say "Excuse me, there's a line here." which is just a polite way of reminding. Sometimes people fail to notice or take things for granted. Point it out. If they insist on being ill-mannered then you can resort to cynicism >:)
And no being Christian doesn't mean letting people walk over you. We follow God, not the whims of others.
talking will end up in making the other parties to dislike me, which is a bad option. i was too straightforward some times ago, and ended up people hating me.
maybe, the way i used to talk was rude or people just can't advises and critisms.
There are many ways to say the same thing. Some will hurt, some will edify. For instance, even the Gospel. Some can tell it as if it's a condemning thing. Some can tell like its an answer to everything. Diplomacy is a skill. Learn it. Practice it. Master it and use it for the glory of God :)
there's still a lot to learn.
i know different ways of saying the same things bring different kind of effects. sometimes, i mean most of the time, i just say something without considering whether or not this is the way the Lord want me to do. need to get closer to God and know His will for me. most of the time, i just feel that i'm waaaaaaaaay far away from God. still climbing the stairs to reach God...
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