How do you determine whether the toilet is yours???
- i live in a single room, at the ground floor of the house. There's only one toilet at the ground floor and the toilet is situated next to my room.
- i wash the toilet since the first day i moved in
- the toilet is full of my own toiletries
Basically or logically, it's my toilet !!!
I knew who uses my toilet all the while, i just don't confront with her. One of the reasons is I want to avoid any argument or dispute between me and the other party. So, two days ago, I put a memo on the toilet's door.
First memo:
Please ask my permission before using my toilet. Manner matters!!!
After i put on the first notice, i realised there is still someone using my toilet without asking my permission. Someone tip-toed into my toilet. Gosh, the toilet is beside my room, I can hear clearly whatever someone is doing inside the toilet i.e. excretta dropping into the toilet bowl also.
I was extremely angry that time. I wrote a second memo.
Second memo:
OMG! There are still people using my toilet without asking my permission. Don't treat me as an idiot. And don't tell others u r a uni student. Shame of u coz u don't know how to read and understand words!!
The second memo was pasted on the wall under the switch.
I knew those memos were offensive. Frankly speaking, those memos were written to offense people, to make them feel sorry, to make them realised that i can be more harsh than their actions.
Dom and Phing May told me to take it off. They said it's not good to write it like that. They were afraid some other residents in this house will confront me.
That night i called my mum and told my mum everything. My mum told (more to warning) to take it off. So i took it off, willingly, really.
Other than taking it off, i wrote another memo:
Third memo:
If you want to use the toilet, please flush or rinse more water. Respect the one who washes the toilet
I've done my part and I'm being very polite. That's all i can do. I just don't want others to dirty my toilet and make my toilet smell like rubbish dump. Be nice to me and i'll treat you 100 fold nicer.
ps: i don't think she rinse enough water after she uses my toilet. Most of the time i will go and flush the toilet myself immediately after she use my toilet.
ps also:
flush- when you release water from the small water tank above the toilet bowl
rinse-when you turn on the water pipe and rinse the area where your urea or excretta falls on
3 comments:
pity sam... people usin ur toilet without permission.. y the ppl like tat de... no mannered wan ....
but live under 1 roof, some unhappy thing happened is hard to avoid de la..be tolenrate lo ....or try talk with them lo ...
confront or talk with them also no use. we had house meeting before and i thought we had agreement about this. in the end, no one abides by the rules we have had. so, i took this action, to be harsh and offensive. i might sound rude, that's the only way i can keep myself from being bullied or stepped on by others
oh?? hmm living with people cant avoid conflicts :) but i guess it is just normal conflicts happen, and it depends on how we handle it :) sometimes you have to really stand up for yourself, be aggressive instead of being nice :D
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