fun yet frustrating

Just came back from an activity organized by my society. I’m feeling exhausted right now. I kinda had fun just now. It had some game and a little speech on what-to-do-first in our to-do-list. I learnt some skill on how to manage my time and how to organize my to-do-list, which means how to give priority to the tasks I wanted or needed to accomplish. Allow me to share what I’ve learnt just now.

O – objective

A – activity

T – timetable

S – scheduling

The above key words are the categories we need to consider in organizing our to-do-list.

Goal(s) is/are something clear, definite.

Example:

I want to achieve good results this semester ==> wrong

I want to achieve good results this semester, 4.00 ==> correct

Make your goal(s) clear.

That are a few things that I could remember from the lesson.

After the game and the speech, we were formed into groups of about 8 to 10 persons. In this small group we were asked to share our opinions and our new year’s resolution, how do we give priority to the goals or targets that we have set.

Overall, this activity was a fun to me, partially. You always have bad or sad things happening at the same time when you are having fun. So do I. Some people are lack in manners which I detest. There are a few characters that make me feel sick. Real sick with them.

Character 1

I was doing my own thing, you know, talking to my friends after not meeting them for almost two months(before activity started). There were laughter and we really crapped a lot. Like maniac, as if we were retarded. This is one way to show how close you are to a friend, I mean we can really mingle, that’s the reason why we laugh crazily. Then, a junior joined our conversation. It’s not that I don’t welcome her. We talked to her too, like long lost friend. To her, we laugh too much and at one point, she told me not to laugh so much, which means ‘can you stop laughing? ‘. What the heck?! Is laughing a faux pas? Is there any written law stating that I can’t laugh when I’m talking to friends? What’s wrong with her? Have I offended her? I didn’t make fun of her or say something brutal to her. I was like…hey, come on la, what’s wrong with you.

Character 2

When I was in the small group sharing our very own opinions, another girl did something that makes me feel sick. I was sharing my very very own opinion saying that results in studies is not everything. The most important is the knowledge you gain. You won’t be extra superb if you get four flat (saying in my heart). It’s just something that the elders and the government make up to mess up this world. Then she gave me this look (because she is a four flater wannabe). I know she disagreed with me or I should say she disagrees with me. Come on, you know what is opinion? Opinion is our own way of thinking, so please don’t give that ugly, awful look to someone when he or she is giving his or her opinion. If you disagree with someone, just keep it to yourself or you can politely give your feedback to that someone and not showing that ass face.

I know there are some blog readers who don’t agree with me, but it’s my blog and I write the way I feel. End of story.