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January 29, 2009

People change

People change. Everyone is evolving. Everyone just has to evolve. Some people are constantly evolving, while some might just evolve once in a very long time.


Lately I notice that some people around me have changed, tremendously. I am so shocked to see them change. I am shocked but not happy because they become worse.


Do people change because of the cruel environment? Or people don’t change at all but just reveal who they really are, after so many years I know them? It’s really saddening to see them treat you differently, as if you guys were strangers, from the beginning of the relationship.


I really couldn’t understand, at all. I always think that relationship is about taking and giving. I thought I was giving all the time and expect to take from others. I was wrong. I am still wrong. I still give but I don’t seem to receive at all. Am I hoping too much? Am I hoping for something I shouldn’t hope for?

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2 comments:

Meng Her said...

Is time to learn ....
people change for their own not for others... not matter is good or bad, just that people only know...

Anonymous said...

You're right with the concept of giving and taking.

But the truth is..

Learn this if you really wanna be happy.

Don't give if you thought he/she didn't deserve you. But once you give, never ever hope to take. Because only things come in a surprising way that count.

Be happy, my friend.